We live in an era that tells us to “grind our way to success.” The idea of working very hard in the name of succeeding seems to resonate with most people for very good reasons. But is it really necessary to go through intense difficulties just to win in life? Are we required to grind so hard that we lose ourselves in the process of reaching our goals?
But grinding tells us that something is wrong and is out of alignment. In nature, there is no such thing as a “season of grind”. How to tell when you’re grinding and how to get out of it.
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The Grind Does NOT Work
What the universe portrays is always the perfect model. For example, the seasons. Just as Spring is meant for growth, we as humans are also meant to grow. Just as Summer is meant for hypergrowth, we are also meant to speed up the growing cycle at one point. Just as Fall is meant for harvest, we are also meant to collect and gain. And lastly, just as Winter is meant for rest, we are also meant to stop and take our time.
There is no movement in nature that requires a season of grind. If you’ve ever driven a manual car, you know tha tif you feel something grinding in the engine, then there’s something wrong.
When something is grinding, something is off and misaligned. A little bit of that in a vehicle should cause us to stop and fix the engine before driving. But we have normalized living each day despite wearing and tearing.
The danger is that we have succumbed to the idea that this is the way it should be. We wear ourselves out by thinking there’s no other way to build that empire except to hustle. You don’t have to constantly be inside the vicious state of controlling and sleeping with one eye open.
The grinding mentality is not only harmful to you in the long run, but is also completely unnecessary. If you’re thinking you can only achieve so much by staying worn out, you have to know this: You can’t win if you lost yourself while running the race.
How to Know if You’re in the Grind
The best sign is if you have a controlling attitude over everything. Do you constantly expect things will go your way? Does it bother you when everything and everyone does not bend to your will?
Listen to the words that are constantly running through your head. If the unspoken motto in your head is “I have to make this work,” – you are in that grinding energy. There’s nothing wrong with doing your best! But don’t force it; take a step back and find an easier way.
The Real Way to Success Is…
So if we need to stop being too pushy all the time, it only means one thing: Stream in the flow of the empowered feminine. The grind does not have to be part of it, but it also doesn’t mean we have to slack eighty percent of the time.
Higher levels of success require hard work. This means you need to scale up how you communicate, lead, or hold your boundaries. Don’t forget the importance of technical business – we should not only place the spotlight on soft skills. Sometimes these seasons of hard work can turn intense – but never difficult.
Don’t make yourself available for constant grinding because a worn-out version of you is never good for you, your family, or your company.
Let Life Meet You on YOUR Terms
The next level of success can be reached through a path of dazzle and delight. It doesn’t have to be on a rocky, thorny road of doom. Some people achieve success in a long and painful way because they choose the hard path. If you’re in the grind, it’s time to re-route to the path of success without struggle.
You don’t need to grind your way to scale up and level up; it’s your choice. You can get life to meet you on your terms at every single level. You never have to go through a period of grind, if you don’t want to.
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