The length of your to-do list or the busy-ness of your calendar has nothing to do with your self-importance. Yet we are so addicted to “doing more” that we never become “enough”.
It’s no wonder so many women feel trapped. They’re in so much masculine energy that they’ve lost touch with their empowered feminine. Join me in this episode as we talk about leading out with your empowered feminine and playing your way to success!
A World Under Pressure
For thousands of years, women have lived under pressure- the exact opposite of how it should be. We are so much more powerful when we lead with our empowered feminine. The bad news? No one has ever taught us how to do that.
We can’t blame the world for not being able to teach us the value of the empowered feminine. We live in a society that celebrates masculine energy. Devalued and dismissed, the feminine struggles to thrive because no one sees its role.
It’s time to change that.
Women feel pressured because their feminine energy is dormant. It’s no wonder so many women are numbing. Women have to do everything and be everything to everyone.
A woman has to know how to run a household, raise children, do good in her job, maintain a great figure and so much more. It’s gotten harder and harder to be enough as a woman! To see women try so hard and still nail it is both fascinating and heart-breaking.
How The Feminine Can Stand Out
First things first – allow yourself to shine. Did you know that after all your accomplishments, you have turned efficient but dusty? You have to shake yourself off a little bit and find the radiance inside you.
We don’t need to operate under this pressure anymore. We have to stop believing that the busier we are, the more important we are. Stop overscheduling yourself and finding honor in excessive roles and tasks. Have you ever noticed that it’s so common to start your day defeated and end the day defeated even more? Our jobs and tasks always demand more and more, so we end up in a never-ending cycle of catch-up.
Do people ever succeed by playing the boys’ game? Definitely. Many women build empires by operating in their masculine.
I’m not devaluing the masculine energy; I’m saying women have a better choice.
The empowered feminine doesn’t thrive in pressure. It loves time, stillness, and play. Rather than letting the clock govern us, we must let our compass guide us. Find your true north – your desires.
The Pleasure Is Yours!
Life’s pleasures are your roadmap to your desires. Your desires are available for you to experience. When you allow your desires to guide you, you switch on your empowered feminine.
Does that mean you burn all your to-do lists? Not necessarily. I love my to-do lists, but I don’t start my day with them. You have to start your day by connecting with pleasure! Get a piece of paper and write a list of what you used to love to do as a child that might sound frivolous and a “waste of time” now. You’ll probably write about painting, eating chocolate, watching the sunset, or making bracelets.
Play Your Way To Success
When I get grumpy I let out a deep, exhausting sigh. When I notice myself sighing many times a day, I know I’m extra grumpy. The good news is I detect it and know what it means… I have not connected with pleasure for some time. It’s my body telling me to take a break. It’s my mind telling me to recheck the compass.
There will be days when life will demand so much from us that we must use the masculine. But that doesn’t mean we should lose connection with our desires. When you lose touch with your desires for days or weeks, you can still get the work done like you always have. But what happens when you’ve accomplished everything? You still don’t feel enough because you forgot to fuel yourself along the way.
You have a choice. Leave the grueling process of doing more and feeling less fulfilled. You have to find your radiance that only pleasure can unlock!
The Bottom Line
The journey becomes enjoyable when you play your way to success. The destination is important, but the path towards it is important, too! Stop feeling pressured to move mountains to impress everyone. Enjoy the mountain walk instead.
The path to the next level of success is via pleasure – take it!
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