Can I manifest for someone else? My husband, for instance?
This is the question I usually get from well-meaning wives whose husbands are grumpy… or just think that what their wives are doing is a waste of time (or is impractical, or weird, or doesn’t work, or name it).
However, not only well-meaning wives are interested in manifesting for others. Actually, many people would like to master that technique. Why? It’s easy – because they want good things for their loved ones.
But what about those who don’t want anything good to happen to someone else? What if someone wants to manifest bad things for others? Or what if someone is trying to manifest things on behalf of a person who doesn’t necessarily want those particular results?
Suddenly manifesting doesn’t seem so good, does it? But don’t worry! You just need to trust the Universe that divinely regulates everything, including manifesting matters. And those are the things I’m diving into today.
So, tune in for the new episode and find out what you can (NOT) do when manifesting for others and why you’re better off focusing on your own manifesting.
Let’s dive in!
Why Would You Want to Manifest for Someone Else?
Why would you want to manifest for somebody else? This is how I usually answer when someone asks me about manifesting for others. When it comes to wives, they mostly admit they want their husbands to:
- start believing in this stuff
- see possibilities
- see a bigger picture
- know that they’re not all alone
- know they don’t have to be stressed out
Although these are well-meaning intentions for sure, they actually turn into a manipulation tactic. And I don’t subscribe to manipulation tactics!
But no matter what intention is, the answer to the burning question is, Yes, you can manifest for somebody else to a certain degree.
There’s great power in visualization. There are things happening energetically and in consciousness (of your own and somebody else’s) when you continually visualize and get emotional about a result you would like to see on behalf of somebody else.
Manifesting Never Trumps Free Will
That kind of manifesting is working for someone. For example, people whose children have a hard time in school, really dismal grades, and aren’t living up to their potential.
I’ve heard of parents visualizing their child coming home and saying, Check out my grades – all A’s! They visualize celebrating with them, how it feels, what it looks like, the big hug around their shoulders…
However, it takes time and effort. You got to do this a lot of times and it may work. But, ultimately, even visualizing or sending good thoughts or prayers or any kind of proxy or distance work will never trump free will.
So trying to manifest on behalf of somebody else who does not necessarily want that result (although you know that would be so wonderful for them) will not ever trump their free will. And it shouldn’t.
I’ve already mentioned people who don’t have other people’s best interests in their hearts when they want to manifest for them. So it’s really important that we stay in our own lane, instead of trying to get into somebody else’s lane.
Trying to manifest for somebody else very quickly swerves into manipulation and control. And it’s none of our business to mess with somebody else’s life, whether it’s in their best interest or not.
Let’s illustrate this. Has anybody ever tried to cheer you up when you’re in a bad mood (and you don’t feel like getting into a good mood)? Are their efforts appreciated? Are their efforts received? No!
In fact, you get more annoyed. And here’s the big kicker – it isn’t until you decide that you want to get into a better mood that any of the things the other person is doing makes any sort of difference for good!
Lead by Example
The same thing happens when manifesting. If you want to manifest for somebody else, the best way is to learn how to become an amazing manifester yourself, lead by example, and model it for them.
Of course, not in a way, “You know, you really should learn how to do it my way, because my way is obviously so much better and more productive than yours.” I mean, who wants to ever hear that? No, thank you!
But, when they see you in this beautiful energy and how much more settled, peaceful, joyful, and happier you are, they’ll probably wish to have fuller life of their own. And that’s free will they need to manifest what they want.
We are all naturally divinely wired by God to want to be happy, to feel fulfilled, and to expand. We live in a universe of expansion, and you will always be called upon to grow. So, focus on your own expansion and model that.
Don’t make your loved ones wrong because they don’t want to expand or manifest the same way you do. But don’t make yourself wrong or hold yourself back for that either (although your spouse, kids, or friends are mocking you a little bit for it). Nobody has to be wrong!
So remember to stay in your own manifesting lane and work on your own thoughts, beliefs, and vibrations. And let other people have their journey as well.
A Step Above Manifesting
I’ve up-leveled those and gone a step above manifesting – to co-creating. Manifesting seems to take a more passive role in the creation process, and co-creation has a more proactive role.
Many people are like, “I know how to manifest close parking spaces. But I don’t really know how to manifest things that actually make a difference in my life.” That’s the point when you go beyond manifesting, start learning/doing your part, and get into co-creating.
Manifesting things is a lot of fun. But co-creating is so spectacular! That incredible experience is actually one of the things I teach my clients to do in my Rise Up and Ascend mentoring programs. We also spend time in our free online workshops doing so.
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