My husband and I celebrated our 20th wedding anniversary last November. I happened to be in a week-long training over our anniversary, and decided months in advance that it would be a ton of fun to surprise my husband by flying him in for the evening, share a romantic dinner, stay the night in a 4 star hotel and send him back home the following day. Everyone loves surprises, right?
Wrong.
My husband is a planner. He likes structure and stability. I, on the other hand, am a nurturer and love relationships, “warm fuzzies” and fun surprises.
I know this because I had used the personality science of B.A.N.K. to crack his code and mine. And because I knew he was a ‘Blueprint’ and I was ‘Nurturing’ I could plan the perfect anniversary memory and honor both of our personality codes
It started with me leaving a card he was instructed NOT to open until 11 am on our anniversary day. I knew he would honor this rule, because Blueprints love rules. And they obey them.
Inside the card I surprised him with a printout of his flight itinerary and an explanation that the kids were all taken care of, I’d planned this well in advance, and knew what I was doing.
He immediately sent me a text asking if I’d made reservations for dinner. I hadn’t, because I didn’t know what we’d be in the mood for that night. He was already online looking at restaurants, texting me the play-by-play. Within 10 minutes he’d picked a restaurant, called them, and made reservations.
He was happy because our evening now had structure and a plan, I was happy because I got to be the cause of a “warm fuzzy” and create a significant memory for us, and because I honored both our codes we had an amazing time together at Downtown Disney and a 4 star hotel in Newport Beach!
If I hadn’t known his code, I wouldn’t have understood his frustration if nothing had been planned, nor would I have honored my code to the degree that I did.
That is the power of BANKcode.
It holds the secrets, the science, the system, and the solution to every relationship you’ll ever have.
So, in honor of Valentine’s Day tomorrow, I invite you and your sweetheart to crack your personality codes and take your relationship to the bank! Go to http://mybankcode.com/prosperity to crack your code for free. Then copy and paste the link and send it on to your special someone to see how your codes compare.
Once you know each other’s codes you’ll say, “aha!” instead of “aarrggh!”